I mean feeling gratitude and positivity, praying to give him what he needs to get over her and come back, visualizing being back together and happy and acting happy about it now like it has already happened. I was just reading about it and was curious.
Read this out loud ... Does it sound like a person working on detaching, GAL, 180, PMA... Or does it more resemble someone fixated on her situation and obsessing about the WAS/OP?
Doing anything to get a reaction typically backfires two fold in my experience