Where I am...

[mahhhty]

Just put the two sweetest and most rambunctious kids to bed. We played old maid and go fish and they loved it. They did pretty well too, both of them beat dad every time. I love my kids. Now I have scotch (trying to diversify) and I'm here to wrap my head around this.

Fo2 - No I didn't give her my kidney. Is she healthy enough? I wouldn't think so, so OM is probably helping somehow. The thing about skiing that pisses me off the most, is that (skiing and soccer) were my ideas and my actions to bring them up for the kids. I was open and honest with her, and she took it and ran with it. Then she double books them for soccer.

It was quite satisfactory to me that they didn't remember his name.

G - I'm headed to check out Mona right after this.

Follow up from Mozza. He asked these questions the other day. I didn't explicitly respond.

OM: Very simple: you have no control. She will introduce the kids to OM if she wants to and if you decide to fight that battle, you will lose. What have have control over is how you react to it. Is it hurtful for you? What part of it hurts? Do you think the kids will be harmed by meeting him?

Is it hurtful? - Yes.
What part hurts? - The idea of "family." My ego. The kids aren't better for meeting him. So in my eyes this is purely selfish. The idea that no one has the gaul to approach me to say... Hey I'm going to introduce the OM to the kids. In the co-parenting workshop (that our state requires) the instructor kept asking how is what you are doing helping the kids. I would ask how is what she is doing helping the kids. Kidney failure and divorce, and she thinks this is the next best long term thing of her life. Honestly, what is she smoking and where can I get some.
Do I think the kids will be harmed? - They will be if they get attached.

I haven't reacted to anything. I haven't written her back. I am ranting.

Now to read page 8 of Mona.