Hello everyone... Just stopping in to update. I've been doing GREAT! My H is still at home and Yes, I'm surprised today I was like wow he is still here. Yes I thought he would be gone by now.
No R talks in I don't even know how long, maybe the last post was the last time.
H is existing like we are all good. I'm GREAT but our R is still in limbo.
I have a new job, which its alot of new things to learn, but I love it. Family and I had great Holiday's.
H does kiss me goodbye more often on his way to work, H is communicating better with me ( he always communicated but it does not seem as fake as it had in the last year)
NEWS FLASH- H has gone to some IC, he tells me it because of the issues he is having at work, told me a couple of things the Counselor said, asking H to go back to his childhood and discuss why he is sooo angry. He had one conversation to me about it, I told him it was a good idea and I hope it helps his job situation. H has never mentioned it again and I have not ask (this was about 1 month ago).
H is still in a fog of sorts, he has admitted to forgetting things etc.
I have been trying to lose weight, focused on my son my new job and being a better me each day!!!
I believe I'm in a very good place right now, I don't dwell or think about the what if as it relates to my M.
I'm prepared either way.
I hope others are doing good. I don't plan to read any posts at this time, sometimes I would read others posts and get more worried or upset about my situation.
I will stop back one day later and read some posts and try to provide support.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW