Where I am...

[mahhhty]

TX & Julie.... That was a spirited conversation and I definitely agree with it, although have never implemented anything close to that and frankly don't know where to start.

A lot of the time, I come here, I have a good post and feel good then moments later something happens...

I haven't seen my kids in a almost a week until today. Needless to say, I was excited...

1... I text X telling her that I booked soccer. She texted that she had plans and was going to take the kids skiing. This disturbed me deeply, as I told her two weeks ago that I was booking soccer and ski lessons. The idea that she was going to bring them skiing and not tell me upset me. As I was proactive and approached her about both skiing and soccer. I come up with the idea and she implements it. That pissed me off. She has done that before.

2.... I pick up the kids. We leave daycare. We are in the car 5 minutes and they tell me that a boy, who's name they can't remember went to X-Niece's birthday party and slept over.

Here is my kids Mom. She is sick. They know it. They ask me when she will get better. I say of course not knowing. They tell me they like it when we are all together. I don't respond. I'm trying to get them going in sports with no help. If I want to talk or if something is wrong. I have to bring it up.

It what world is she living in, that she believes the kids life is so stable to introduce someone who sleeps in her bed.

I'm frustrated, but I haven't responded. Any help is appreciated.