My W was caught in a PA when the OM's wife messaged me on FB telling me of the affair. She was unreachable during the affair and still seems to be in a state of shock. His wife really busted her chops and sent her pictures of him and at least two other women. My wife was so "in love" with him that she was blind to the snake he is. And the other man's wife isn't done yet. I think she is really up to something big. The sad thing is that my wife hasn't given a damn about what the affect is on the two families. And that is a shame. She is/was so lost in him that I didn't exist.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
