UGH Cake Eaters! Make her fend for herself. She no longer has you to take care of her.
Here's the thing about cake eating.
When you DB masterfully, it can be done in a way that will show them what they're missing ESPECIALLY, in NYG's case, when the partner has "kicked" you out.
Then show them one taste of the icing. The PULL the cake away.
Whop! That's the WAS falling flat on their faces.
Problem with newbies is that many are too desperate to implement "going dark" strategy because they're quaking in their boots out of fear that they'll push the WAS out of the door. Uh. Say that again? You're already out of the door since they've fired you.