What do we say about mindreading around here?! Exactly.
Originally Posted By: NYGal
I'm hoping that in this first week away, she's missing me. She tends to reach out when she's missing me. And I think she's curious what I'm up to and how I'm doing, so that's good. Aren't I just being the lighthouse?
Erase all of that ^^ from your head. You just DO NOT know what W is up to or what she's thinkinng...or what she's eating...or ....on and on.
In my case, Ms. Wonka and I went months, and months before Ms. Wonka even texted me. I kept myself busy. Came to DB site when I felt the strong urge to reach out to her.
My advice is to go pitch BLACK on W. Seriously. After all, she's the one who asked you to leave the house and wanted some fun "out there." Heh...little does she realize that she's riding on a Train Wreck that is headed for a hairpin turn. Then it will be DERAILMENT. All thanks to OW.
You won't have to lift.a.finger.
Now, I want to circle back to my earlier comment about responding to W's text with just facts. To me, that is good because it shows her that 1) You're being cooperative 2) She cannot do those things without you.
Then the next time it happens, just don't happily help her. Come here for advice first and we'll help you text/email back to say "no more of this." Then we all sit back and watch W and OW implode.
Stay with us here.
Your first priority is to go dark, DARK.
-no more swinging by OW's building -no more plotting 1,250 ways to run into W -no more wanting to text/email W -no more wanting to call W for "this n' that"
