Holiday Advice

[peacetoday]

I also think taking a stand is good
It takes a real strong person to do that approach-- there is also a book called ...
never read it but I think the approach is different from DB
more about setting limits with the WAS
Funny how your W would think its OK to have A just because she said she wants D
when MY XH was having affair with OW (Now Wife)
I must have been in denial and he would lie and I believed it
He came home at all hours --still I wasn't sure
MLC is tough and sometimes no approach really works
but as Sotto said, taking care of yourself is what is most important
Chances are she will not see things too clearly about OM at this time
and she may have to hit a bottom
she is looking to fix herself from the outside in and it just never can be done that way