I'm just so worried about getting in a custody fight about our D. I want to start slowly with overnight visits, going slowly from one night to 2 etc. If a judge becomes involved they might start it at a week. My D could not handle that. Neither could I. But I totally see your point regarding respect. He KNOWS I'd never spent the money on an L, he knows I'm terrified about how I'm gonna make money besides the thing I might start up with him, so he's hanging that over my head.
Thanks for your input, Mahhty. As usual you have great points.
Vanilla, you are more than qualified and welcome to come. A designated driver who doesn't even drink? - Dream come true.
Grl, I'm stressed about my upcoming move. My ex mil is flying in to help me. Very nice, but I have to remember she is his mother, so I have to watch my tongue. And try not to kill her too.
