Thinking about my previous statement more. I did not like the actions and attitude she took on during this. I didn't mind her going out and enjoying herself. The choice of who and where was te issue. I'm not the type of guy to make her stay home and do nothing. Her lack of respect for me during this time also upset me. So in that way she was different.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
