Hi Guys

Thanks for feedback. I have to admit that one of people telling me that they think my W is using me is in a messy divorce and they are embittered and hateful.

Rd, I haven't contacted my W unless it's about the kids or money for joint things we still have (life assurance etc.). My only fear about telling her about going to Hong Kong is that she may see a reason to, at the last minute, find some reason for me not to go. This is not based on fact, just a hunch. I'll mull that one for now.

Poster boy for DB! Rd, last summer you picqued my thoughts towards W (I thought I was right - you were wrong) and I had a couple of weeks away before I resumed my 'studies'. I WAS WRONG. Well, if it wasn't for the likes of you, NDY etc. I would probably be skulking in a corner, so, I owe it all to you guys!


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015