Flight's Thread #2

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Flight,

It sounds like you and I might have wives that are working through feelings that we can't control.

Show her you care, but you're willing to just move on. I'm happy to see my wife making small improvements, but the longer she waits for some sort of epiphany, the more I need to work on ME for ME, for the future.

My wife has a hard time talking about emotions. So, lots of similar statements to your W, like 'I've had enough of the crap for 15 years, I want to be happy, I love the OM'. That's something she has to work on for us to reconcile. To her, it's normal to be emotionally cold - she was before the EA started. Does your wife have issues with emotionally connecting with you? Were you cold to her? She obviously contributed to the sitch, but right now, your strength will shine through, like Sandi said. If she's hurting, she wants strength, not a husband begging to talk. So hard, since I want to connect with my wife on what she said was the problem. I'm more convinced those discussions will happen in front of a MC, and not alone, not with me initiating.