I agree 100% with Job. And I add that even tough I still have feelings for XH. I also feel very good on my own sometimes (well, every day is a better feeling).
I am now actually starting to feel freedom. That attitude... it is my life, and I decide it. It does not feel too bad.
It is slow, and for sure we do not want to rush the process, but it is not as bad as I tough it would be.
Right now, the hardest part is when XH shows up in my life. It just feels better without him. And believe me, I miss him, would like to talk to him sometimes, share some space with him and yet I have so much fun and peace without all his aggravation.
Yeah... never tough I would say that. But it is true.
