Great post Rd, still so much wisdom in both your words and your actions. You're right, you could be all worked up into a frenzy right now at the "change in your sitch" but you know there is no real change yet. There might be the seeds of change, but no moons.

I appreciate you putting all of that out there, it's also evident from your writing how painful this all for you still. I'm sorry for your pain and can see that you're constantly and consistently rising above it for the sake of your kids and your own sanity, but that doesn't mean the pain is not still there.

This was a blessed reminder to see what is really there and not project what is not. Powerful post Rd, stay the course my friend. It does feel like your W is having to lie in the bed she made for herself and is not happy there, but she's yet to leave the bed and make the commitment to start walking towards yours.

Sending you strength my friend, your wisdom on this board is ever so appreciated.

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