Hello, all! It's been a really good day. One of my daughters joined me for my court appearance this morning. My L went to talk to the DA and learned they are already willing to drop the charges (from my breakdown) from a felony to a misdemeanor. So they rescheduled the case to allow for negotiation until February 10th. I didn't even have to stand up or anything.

At that time, I should have my final sentence. They're working to get me into a program that will allow me to work off the misdemeanor and have all charges totally expunged in 6 months. This is fantastic news!!! I am keeping it to myself, though - so H doesn't try and stir up more trouble.

My poor children. I didn't realize how frightened they all were, until I saw my daughter's face when she heard the news. She was texting all her siblings as we were leaving the courthouse. One more black mark against H - his little game hurt my kids more than they were already hurt.

I'm so thankful and relieved today. I may sleep well for the first time in months! My sweet L called me last night to walk me through it all. I felt perfectly okay - no nerves at all. It was quick, too. I was in and out in an hour.

My D and I went and had a lovely breakfast together. It's been a great day. I think things are starting to begin moving in a positive direction. I'm ready to let go and move on, the arrest issue is being addressed, H is finally starting to understand he can't get rid of me for peanuts, and my attitude is hopeful, thankful, and happy.

Thanks so much for the prayers and good wishes. I relied on them a lot today. smile


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti