I guess the reason I highlighted my professional qualities above is that I keep analysing that list W gave me 4 years ago.

This time round she gave me no reason for the ILYBINILWY speech... NO REASON. - nothing for me to work on.

I can search within myself and blame or guilt myself and certainly I know that I didn't own the sex and romance dept other than buying her gifts and words of affirmation which I am good at.

The physical side was lacking - but it takes communication and two people to have sex. It takes commitment and desire and attraction.

It's funny but whenever I speak to other women about my gift buying for W or the fact I compliment those women on a stylish handbag or great boots or nice new hair style or they are looking good today - they always say that my W is lucky, your a gem , I wish my husband was like you etc etc.... If only they knew.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16