Thank you. She has a lot of pent up issues with our marriage but it's really all stuff she sees that has changed. She felt I never loved her and didn't spend time with the young boys enough.
Well those boys are now really close to me and she knows I love her. Who else would be will I get to fight for our marriage through all of this. I will give her some space and in the meantime I will live my life. Either she comes around or I meet someone else.
We talked for two hours the other night. We are both on the same page with what was happening to us and realize we should have stopped it. The lack of real communication and listening to what our partner needed. At least I realize it. She may still be at the blame stage and not yet fully accepting her role
