LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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otw,
I miss the good memories of my old life. I don't miss the anxiety, the anger, the blame, the lack of taking personal responsibility, the accusations, the name calling, the controlling actions, the belittling of my friends and family, etc etc etc....that my WXW use to put me through.

I am able to remember the good times but must remember she has to get some help in order to be the healthy wife I would like to have. This keeps me from folding when she tells me she loves me and wants to start couples counseling.