I wish I could stop obsessing over the OW. I seem to be getting worse. Maybe it's just that I keep finding out he's lying about his whereabouts and is actually seeing her (instead of his kid)
The problem isn't the OW. It is him. The OW is the outlet.
So if he is the problem. He didn't get that way overnight. Surely us the (LBSs) have responsibility in making him him. It took me a long time. But I found some relief from being so upset at her with this idea.
As for L, please hire her/him don't just use them as council. This will take you out of the day to day and it will show him that you are acting appropriately and instituting a boundary. For many cases here, it is when people institute and hold a major boundary that change occurs.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
