tl2, you know what they say about how a man's character is most evident by how he treats those who are not in a position either to retaliate or reciprocate?
I love that you're so sweet to your ILs, even though you're no longer related by marriage. Your XW doesn't know what she's missing out on. Her loss and some other lucky woman's gain.
Do I like a good challenge? Usually yes. But I am kind of busy right now and my hands are really full. But you sound like you will love a good challenge too.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.