tl2, you know what they say about how a man's character is most evident by how he treats those who are not in a position either to retaliate or reciprocate?
I love that you're so sweet to your ILs, even though you're no longer related by marriage. Your XW doesn't know what she's missing out on. Her loss and some other lucky woman's gain.
Do I like a good challenge? Usually yes. But I am kind of busy right now and my hands are really full. But you sound like you will love a good challenge too.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
Hi Joie, thanks for dropping by! I hope you'll be posting regularly on your own thread and other threads for the other dbers to find you. The folks here are very kind and we all want to help. Once you start being more active, you'll have more dbers finding you and reaching out to you.
You will realise that there can be a few different opinions at times, but we all mean well.
Thanks for the headsup about the lice whisperer. I wish I had something similar here. I have been going to my regular salon, but I think they did the best that they could.
The Powers that Be must be teaching me a lesson in patience and chillaxing. The joke is wearing thin but I tell myself I can't have lice for the rest of my life, right? Right??? I hope God doesn't answer that rhetorical question of mine.
I have bought new bedsheets and pillows. Something must work eventually. Or I can shave my hair off for cancer patients.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
Hi NYGal, Imagine me saying all these snarky things with the biatchiest resting biatch face. But hey, if someone breaks up my family and causes my kid to hurt so bad, she is lucky I am not doing more.
I don't do that often but I can imagine how it will be like to be on the receiving end of my RBF. I can understand how the ex would have thought that I really hated him when I had one of these faces on. Even if I was just thinking about what to wear the next day.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
Heard some intel (I really didnt ask for it) about the TP and her family. Turns out that my deductions about her family were right. Hearing this from the mouth of a neutral bystander sort of makes me feel vindicated that there is a basis for my biatchiness.
I can see quite clearly now what it is that she wants and why she wants it. As much as I hate it, I feel sorry for her. I understand her neediness and her brokenness but I wish that she didn't have to do everything at my and kid's expense.
So this is where I will draw the boundary to protect kid and me.
I feel sorry for her but I will not let her do anything that will bring me down personally or professionally. If she does, I will stop at nothing to protect kid and me.
Outwit. Outlast. Outplay. For kid.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
