New guy

[mbebos]

Yesterday was a rollercoaster for me. I was up and down all day. I was feeling pretty lonely and down, cried for the first time in awhile, although it was short. Got home after work, changed into warm clothes, and sacked out on the couch with my kitties and a blanket.

3 friends all made contact in the same day in a short time period. 2 that do not contact much, and 1 that I haven't talked to yet. 1 helped get my spirits back up by helping me focus on the positives.

Had a conversation with the friend that I hadn't spoken to yet. His W is my W's best friend. My W has not spoken to her at all except a 2 minute conversation of we are split up, I will talk to you soon, but not now. We became close with this couple, and they were there with us right after my mom's death, our house troubles, fertility issues, etc. They have a rocky M. Always up and down, always talking about D and S. He couldn't believe what he had heard that she walked out on me. They don't know about the A, and I didn't say much of anything with regards to details. They are living proof that no matter how rocky things are, you can work things out with hard work and love. His W is the breadwinner and was ready to toss his macho butt out. They are hoping and praying we can work out our M.