I get it. I get it.

I know it is counter-intuitive, but please do trust DB. I would really recommend you cut back the texting. While there was nothing in your texts that was DIRECTLY needy or clingy, I still think it was. You were finding ways to continue the exchange. And you were doing it by talking about the children. This creates the perception that you are NEEDY, and that you are USING the children to CONTROL her to continue to communicate to you and stay connected with you when she doesn't want to be.

There's more to it than that, but it's late, and I'm tired too. Just trust us. Keep your mouth shut. Your voice will only hurt things at this moment. For you and for her.

Have faith. We're with you.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15