So last Sunday my W asked for suggestion on what to do for our daughter's birday , she turned 1 this Saturday. I told her we could have pizza i could rent a moonwalk and pretty much buy all decorations for the birthday, just to invite her close friends that have kids and have fun, just let me know what she wants to do. I told her i would need a head count by thursday so i could know what to buy and get pricing for the moonwalk. Thursday came around and i txt her "did you get a head count" she replies with " I thought about it and i thought it was a short notice to invite ppl so im just going to have a small thing with just family like we always do" I tell her thats fine, just let me know what i need to buy, well she replies with " i already bought everything you dont need to worry about it you just show up thats it , youre only invited from 2pm-4pm"
Sure enough SAT comes along i show up at 2. And well theres nothing decorated nothing indicating it's her bday.W come over to me and told me she pushed the bday for later but i could still be here from 2-4pm. I didnt say anything and i just spent the most time with my daughters while i was there. After I left i txt my W "big favor when ever you can pls send me a pic of my daughters next to her cake". Next morning i get 2 pictures from her of my daughters and you can clearly see a kids party in the background. All the kids surrounding my daughters, kind of made me sad that i couldnt be there or i wasnt really invited like she had said. I couldnt even sing happy birthday on her first bday. I JUST KEEP HATING THIS WOMAN MORE AND MORE. But even with this anger i still want to work it out, pitiful.
I am planning on making her my own bday this weekend that i have them again.
Also lately my W has been asking me to bring her some of her stuff when i go visit my daughters, "can you bring me my western boots when you come" "can you bring me these pants i had left in such place" What do you guys think? should i tell her im not her taxi ? should i tell her if she wnts her stuff she needs to come get it herself and just take all her stuff asap.? What should i tell her?
