For those I was following before my 11 day hiatus. Sorry. Things have been very busy for me lately.
Mozza - You are right....
I have stopped (obsessing about the OM). It is silly childish and beneath me.
As for the kidneys, she's started dialysis last week on her birthday and with that additional communication has been required. I also saw her at my S's appointment, it was S's 3rd appointment but her 1st appearance. I maintained my distance but have tried to show empathy and support as the X... most notably was this text response "Ok I'll call her. If you need help please keep me in mind I would love to see the kids more. Good luck at treatment."
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015