Thanks for the great advice. Tomorrow's court date actually has little to do with H - he won't be there. This one is regarding the night I went bonkers and crashed into a parked car. I got charged with felony criminal mischief. Apparently, while I was out of my mind, I told the police I did it on purpose. I don't remember any of it, but I have to take their word for it.
It just doesn't make any sense, because the car I hit was right there, I knew it wasn't H's, but after he told me about his past cheating, I just freaked out. All damages have been paid. My L says that's going to help a lot. I had to go through interviews with the insurance company already regarding this. After I told them what happened, they realized I had no intention of hitting the parked vehicle...but I shouldn't have been driving, that's for sure.
I really think H intended me to kill myself on the way home. I have major depressive disorder...he knew something would happen after telling me there'd been "2 or 3 others". Jerk. He and his friend had me arrested to play divorce games. My L doesn't want to use the extortion recording if he doesn't have to.
We'll just see what happens. I had no idea it could take so long to clear something up in the legal system. Sheesh!
My L is calling me tonight to make sure I'm okay and we have all we need. He calls me "Sweet Judy"...lol He's young enough to be my son. He has great compassion. When I first called him he told me he felt like God really wanted him to help me. They even cut their fees for me, because this D has left me with no money at all. I think I'm in good hands...just hard not to be terrified.
Oh! One time H was trying to shame me. He kept telling me I'd committed a more serious drime than he. He was just a "cheater". I was a felon. Seriously? Morally, he's in the toilet - but I guess if it makes him feel better to think that, more power to him!
