Mind reading Mut, mindreading.

You could be right.But you could be wrong too. Dieting and exercising are used by millions of women to feel better about themselves. Simply for her. Think about it. IT is possible.Once there is another possibility your hypothesis is weaker. If it helps accepted this possibility as reality.

Secondly it is out of your control. Your path is unchanged.

Finally, what are you doing to be more attractive?

Best wishes.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together