Help..I am drowning

[rich4j]

I hear ya and thanks for the tough love.

So I am speaking to a lawyer again tomorrow on if it matters legally around infidelity in PA (where i live). I believe it does...

Then I need to find out how I "find out" as I think if anything it is out of town.
Hiring a PI may be the path I have to go to get this cleared up or not. I found some "things" to help me dig into this suspicion and came up with mostly nothing.

I have asked her flat out and she said no. I can't ask again as I will get the same answer.