Is that a book or do you mean generally, boundaries?
I hear you Drew. He keeps pressing the convo in those directions. So I wonder if there's a way to navigate & encourage the convo to go in better directions. Not to "change him" but to get things on a better track at least.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?