Another thought: I keep thinking that if we can break out of the complaint cycle we could move forward. I keep asking him to state things in a frame of what I can DO instead of what he hates. He gets stumped.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
