T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
No, your old posts will not follow on to this posting. However, you can link your new and old threads to each other by following the easy steps on this link:
If you have any questions, please ask. The steps are fairly easy and once you've mastered them, I will be happy to show you another way to do the links...but it might confuse you at first.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
How do you do link when you are on a phone , not a computer?
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
Also I've been reading about laws of attraction. How you state what you want, believe, envision it and act like you already have it. In my case it's my x back. Have any if you tried this with any luck?
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Cadet or a poster will need to respond to your question about linking from your phone. I, personally, only link when I am at a computer workstation.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I am divorce busting and trying to follow the rules. I've been separated since sept and he has an ow but was wondering if anyone practices the law of attraction and if it's working for any of you.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
What do you mean by the law of attraction? I don't think 'competing' with OW is ever the way to go. However, I think following DB principles is - that means working on detachment, improving yourself (for you) and a possible future partner (or H).
But I think trying to attract him back is probably a time waster, given the probable level of infatuation for OW for now. Best to get out and live your own life for a while - and that has the upside of also being very attractive - but only if you truly do it for you - not to try and win him back. H's with OWs are truly not prizes and your sitch (including OW) probably has to run its natural course.
Take care
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
I mean feeling gratitude and positivity, praying to give him what he needs to get over her and come back, visualizing being back together and happy and acting happy about it now like it has already happened. I was just reading about it and was curious.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
I did ask about using your cell and how to link threads to your old/nice ones and Cadet advised me that it's difficult to do and you would be better off to do the linking from a computer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
