My heart and prayers go out to you and your father. I lost my dad to the same thing in Jun 2012, stage 4 went from the lungs to the spine and spread quickly from there. Thing is, I was so thankful for the weekend I was able to make it back, I only regret not staying a bit longer. Spend as much time as you can, enjoy it... Put the W and the MLC crazy train on hold for now... There is a lot on your plate with all this... Hang in there I know it's brutal
