H and I were supposed to talk last week re: everything incl. the D
I was sick so we were going to reschedule. Yesterday, I asked if he just wanted to call me, but he said he was too busy. So today, I get an email that essentially says, " hey, clearly our schedules aren't alowing for us to chat in person or on the phone so I thought I would reach out this way. I believe it's time for you to move the rest of your things out of the house. I don't know if you want to move them to your apartment t or storage facility, but I would pay for the move and the storage space for the first year.......(blah blah logistics)..... It would be easier for you to hire movers and I am perfectly alright with paying for that. I mentioned before just let me know if there is anything else you want from the house. ...... Blahblah.... I think it's best that this should be done with out me. I am working one day almost every weekend for the next few weeks... Blah blah.
So, I'm thinking I don't want to divide anything up or remove my belongings without some legal agreement in place. We need to take some inventory of our assets- furniture, etc. b/c that comes into play as part of the divorce settlement. This then puts me in the position that I didn't want to be in. I didn't want to file. Am I making a big deal about it? I don't want it to come back and bite me later if I'm think him agreeing to pay for storage or allow me any of our belongings is a kind gesture. It's not.
What do you think? How should I respond?
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
