Late to the game-2

[keefa]

I have read this or variations of this so many times in the last few weeks I have been on here.

"She could have told me that she was unhappy. She could have said that we needed to go to MC.
Instead, she quietly had an affair while she told me that she was unsure about our M. The truth is, she asked for space to sample life with OM. The whole time that she told me that she was unsure, she was with him.
Also, she lied to me. I had asked her if there was an OM soon after BD. She said no.
From an outsiders point of view, I look at this and say "of course she lied. Cheaters won't admit what they are doing."
From the LBH point of view, my view, I can never get past this. I could never trust her again. I fully understand why she lied, but I choose to not live with that.
Does my W deserve a second chance? Yes, but she will not get it. The continued lies, dishonesty, betrayal of trust and lack of remorse will never let me do it.
Maybe it was a mistake, but I asked her again today if there was someone else. With the typical blank, cold, non eye contact response, she calmly said no. It just reaffirmed my decision to end our M."

It is a mirror of my sitch. This has been the ultimate betrayal to me, the stranger standing in front of me barely resembles the person I (thought) I knew.