I am starting to find some goals that are not relationship oriented. Like money and working out. I will find more as time goes on. As for protecting my money. I am in the process of moving everything to my own account so that i am totally independent. There is some things I have to get signed by another party and I am working on that.
I don't have a problem calling her out on borrowing or taking money. I am wondering how I approach this. This is what I am considering texting her. I was looking at the account this am and saw my ei came in. It covered the check you wrote to xxx for daycare. My understanding was I covered ab and you covered xy. Is that still the agreement? I understand you are starting out so money is tight.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
