In times of intense emotions, it is so important to remember our principles and ideals and goals. W is acting on her feelings right now, forgetting her principles and ideals. You should not make the same mistake. It's good to feel your emotions, cry and grieve and be angry, but the moment you act on them, like send text messages or make big decisions about the future, you are no different than W in her pursuit of a feeling.

It's like they say about tattoos... a lasting memory of a transient feeling.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17