Dday, for me, because I am convinced that it's really over, I am aiming for indifference. For me, cutting the rope means not having any more feelings for the ex and not loving him from a distance. But who am I kidding?
The way I see it, detaching means self love as well. Loving yourself enough not to shackle yourself to whatever is hurting you. Your expectations of your R with your w is tying you down.
Now that you're not in any relationship, you can make use of the gift of time to work on yourself. Which you already are doing. When you're ready, you may want to get to know other people. You can look at w as someone who has been returned to the dating pool and who can be a potential date for you. But don't hold your breath while waiting for her. Get to know other people because our interactions with others can show us sides of ourselves we may never have noticed.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
