Anc, I never looked at it that way. I did compliment her on it. It does look cute. Just not the way she has worn it in 10 years. I don't think I have been controlling at all. But one time she told me that I always chose what we did on vacation. I didn't feel that way, we would split trips between mountains and beaches, one for me, one for her.
Once she complained to me about never making a decision. But, that was after bd. And I was mush at that point.
I don't know why that her haircut got to me, other than another sign that she wants to be someone different than she has been the last 14 years or so. She also wears tight jeans now, which I guess is the trendy thing, but not who she was.
I think I am in love with a ghost. I need to get my mind to realize that she isn't that girl I married now, and may never be again.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
