I guess it's not even giving them slack, it liking them because they do these things and these things are very human.
I think Julie I am just trying too hard to be everything to myself and everybody else. But I am not sure how to be any other way. I guess what you and V and Zues are all saying is stop trying to be anything other than what I am.
I guess I get confused about trying to figure all the things that I did that led me to have two failed relationships with two reasonably honest good men. Trying to fix my lack of friendships and social connections and trying to fix why I limit success in my life. Your supposed to fix these things to have a better life, to avoid making the same mistakes over again. Although V advocates for making lots of mistakes and growing that way.
God when I write it like that...oh dear! I'm f**ked!! Aarrraagggghhhh!
