Gmum, has your L given you advice on what you're entitled to?

In D matters, you must not give your stbx the benefit of the doubt. This is not the time to take the high road. You have a young D who is dependent on you. Get what you're entitled to.

You and D have a long way ahead of you. Don't go soft on your H!


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.