Thank you for getting back with all the information !
I joined the supporting group of CRU(campus crusade of Christ) three months ago. They encourage the left behind spouse text/email husband, showing husband the love and care that wife have for them. I tried, I send text message to husband, he seldom answers, which we are taught to keep the expectation down to zero.
After two months, when we had phone conversation(2 weeks ago) he spewed with rage, he told me he cursed his mother. He broke the chair (I heard it) I kept my silence. Like you said, he complained about jobs, his work friends, the marriage... almost everything.
I did not really use the method - go dark. I would appreciate if you could let me know the true meaning/action of go dark.
Soon we are going to celebrate Chinese new year, my mother in low invited me for new year's eve dinner with them, my husband did not ask or invite me to. Shall I go ?
