Hi Shay. I am so glad that you and your husband are working on your marriage. I have been separated 3 mos and folks like you give folks like me hope! I think that your husband needs to be very open about his cell phone bill considering what you guys have been through. When you have a day when you mind is racing or you are feeling insecure, maybe ask H if you can have 15 mins to express how you are feeling with "i" stetements and he can reassure you. Set aside time to communicate. Start with small intervals. Did you see the signs that he was getting ready to come home. Did you guys date while he was at his sisters house?
