NYGal, DO NOT REACH OUT TO HER. She has left and if she wants you back she'll have to come get you. And don't take her back right away. Leave the door open but she will need to win you back. Do not show up places you know she will be. When she doesn't hear from you or see you she will wonder. She can't help but wonder. Be mysterious. Take this gift of time to work on you and not to have to worry about the needs of another. This can be a great time of self improvement and self reflection. It is a gift.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place