Man your sitch is nearly identical to mine! M-17yrs, 3ds, OW at work, antidepressants for me, H a manager and the whole cell phone deal!!! Too ironic!!!! For months after H came home we only had what i call surface R talk. Now 5 mos. later we are finally getting down to business.
It is very important that since you KNOW H wants to be there and he is showing all the right signs and signals you are thoroughly confused by the recent cell phone deal and if he wants this to TRULY work, he needs to make you feel secure, no matter what. My H even leaves his phone out for me to check and knows tht I have people who would let me know if he was speaking to anyone (OW) while at work.
He even told me recenty when she called his voicemail. I too am helping him get through some major snags at work. It's great that you can share that! I say you are doing fine. Just make yourself clear as day as far as the cell phone and don't forget to keep the 180s coming!! Em
