Flight's Thread #2

[Flight]

Sandi,

You are stuck b/c you choose to believe whatever your W says to be truth. Listen when a woman wants out of a M, she will say anything to the H. She wants out. She will lie, bully, and whatever else it takes to make you let her go. Understand? She will lie about her feelings, about the past, and about you.

So what's the answer if this applies to my situation? I think I know my W and do believe she won't look back. There is a pattern that leads me to believe this, but then again, anything is possible. She seems to believe it really is over and the EA was just bad timing. She would have been gone no matter what. And when she leaves, it will mean selling the house, or at best, me buying her out and her buying a house. That is then a LOT of investment in a new life. Doesn't seem likely to give that up and come back.

So do I let her go and encourage her to sign papers and put the for sale sign in the yard and see what happens? Also, this would involve telling our D, so that bridge would be burned too.