Here again after 9 years and struggling 3

[Zues126]

So........with that rant that blew DBing out of the water and today's discovery I think I feel like throwing the towel in and filing for D myself. I cannot believe what the man I married has turned into. Can't sleep, feel physically sick and crying my eyes out.

I feel like a broken record lately but here goes again...are you blowing off steam, or is filing divorce something you might do? What, to you, are acceptable reasons for divorce?

For me it's serial adultery and/or physical abuse. Not bikes and power struggles over schedules. I guess I'm just curious. Many people tell me they don't believe divorce is always a bad choice, that's their call, I just want to know who's threads I should be following and contributing to.