I tend to say no, for example and then......

When the person applies pressure as most do to get you to change your answer, I then reach for explainations

That make you sound whiney and weak or when having to defend the fact I have been falsely accused (another work issue that arise from being seen to do somthing once or occasionally it becomes always and never) by the super.

I need to get better at validation on her side and learn better than I don't have to explain or justify but no is perfectly acceptable and ok if in my best interest.

Pushed the l today, as I had not heard back and the proposed deadline by her was early February. Which has now pushed stuff back again, frown I never wanted some thing warped up as much as I do this settlement. I need that equipment back, and then I can really soar.

I'm really looking forward to the world record too. Practice soon. In a couple of months it will be done and dusted, at this stage I'm a tad excited.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26