LG, I guess that all of us on this forum married the wrong people although we didn't know it at the time. As life goes by we meet many more other people and there is a good chance that we will meet someone much better suited to us than our spouse. Of course we are no longer young and free enough to "dump" Unsuitable and go off with Suitable without also dumping other people we love dearly (children, in-laws etc.). However if we are working with Miss Suitable and doing all the lovely flirting etc. that we would like to be doing with Mrs. Unsuitable then the temptation to have it all would be just too much to resist. Expect him to take a long time to get over it LG, maybe he never will. SD who believes in Jesus but struggles to believe in God - probably the opposite view to hairdog and somewhat short of lost_girl.
