I struggle with worrying about coming off as cold and distant as well. I feel that was part of my problem as well. Ex is this morning I texted her to say good luck. It felt good to me. I have to remember tho. She is the one that asked for time and space. When S dropped the bomb to her the old marriage was over. I don't want to be demoted to friend. I want to be best friend and hisband. I'm letting go of the anger. Accept that this her choice and path. You have to figure out your path and goals. I'm working on those too.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
