I have removed myself from my difficult position of trying to decide if my H's OW should remain as his business manager.
Sunday evening as my H and I were trying to work out the logistics of his OW staying on as his manager, it became apparent to me that it was not going to work at all. As my H talked to me about the situation, he was indirectly telling me how difficult it was going to be and he demonstrated how he was still feeling for her (not that I expected him to turn his feelings for her off immediately) and I was able to sense from his responses and body language to our discussion that we will simply have to make a clean break from her totally. It means more business work for me and him, but we shall manage somehow.
I thought I was being compassionate by even considering keeping OW on in the business, but it would not be fair to me, my H and especially her. They wouldn't be required to interact at all, but I have decided to not even take the chance of the R between them continuing.
LG-who thinks Jesus IS still a great guy, whom she loves very much!
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
